How to say No.

How to say No to what you dont want.

Know what you want to achieve- It is very important you know what you want achieve. If you don’t know what you want to achieve then you will just live life anyhow. There should be something you want. That is your Goal. And it has to be right on spot, clearly specified.

Like to worth $250,000 by the end of march.

To win at leasts 9 souls for Christ today.

Not To improve my net worth,To win  souls today.

            Your Goal is your target. Having a target is very important, those that don’t have don’t accomplish much in life. It is simply logical in any field of play without a goal post the game becomes useless. but with your Goals written on a paper it will energies you to fulfill them and also cause your attention to go towards achieving them. when you have goals like this there is an inner power that comes on you to fulfill it. Another thing you must note is that your Goal must be positive. You shouldn’t be the one writing goals to achieve the wrong stuff. Evil dont pay.

There should be something you want  achieve in life, be a thinker, think out what you want to do and make out plan to do it. Have a program. Don’t be controlled by someone else to accomplish the wrong thing. Your life and destiny is in your hands.

Learn To Say No

            You have to grow your will power. For that to happen you have to consciously do it. Always think positively. Then train your mind. You train your mind by conscious thinking. And as time goes on you will be able to render solutions from the inside of you.

To achieve anything worthwhile in life you need to learn how to say No. for every true yes you say, Be ready to say no to other thing. After discovering what you want to achieve make out plan and start it up. Of course there will always be oppositions, but your Goal is higher so don’t stop or quit. Keep doing it.

            You may make a goal program to stop a bad habit or something what you need to do is to always put the goal before you and ensure to accomplish it no matter the pressure.

“if you say No to something bad, not everyone may appreciate that. Not everything will go as you desire if may not be smooth sail all the way. But one has to take some trouble for a good cause for withstanding opposition and overcoming objections and obstacles. After all. A thing of beauty is a job for ever victory comes only through struggle.

            Someone may be displeased, unhappy. Hurt, offended and wven augry with you for saying No to something dishonest and fishy. Do not let your heart and mind be troubled by that reaction. You have acted rightly as you should” Dr. George Kaitholith

 Therefore don’t do what you feel like doing but do what you ought to do.

What are your motives?

            This is very important. God checks your motive. Are your motive right, is it for the kingdom. Listen to your conscience and also understand the consequences. it is very important to note the consequences of your decision for every wrongdoing there is a consequence. Make the consequences known to yourself and it will also help you to stop the cause. Your inability to say no is your highest weakness. Deal with it.